"Easy"
Tuesday night turned to taxing conflict resolution. It was “he said she said” among teens; two girls accused JP of saying profoundly unkind things. Her reply? “You are a fucking faggot,” which she rehearsed multiple times in front of me. You can only imagine how the rest of the night went. Later, a parent would be become involved with a similar level of grace and coolness. I never heard JP say anything unsavory throughout the night and for that, the girls were angry with me as well. Regardless, I sat down with JP, one of whom I am discipling. He is believer, but the other girls are not. Though he is admittedly rough around the edges, we had a markedly different conversation than I ever could have with the two girls. Because of our mutual faith in Jesus, we reasoned on the basis of the gospel. “These girls don’t really believe in Jesus yet, but they get to see Jesus in you if you can be good to them even if you did nothing wrong. We gotta always come back to Jesus. He died an r...